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I know you say most men are marriage-minded underneath but they seem much less interested in getting into a stable, committed relationship than women do, and seem to drag their heels.
Some of the things I hate about being single are (in no particular order): lack of love, affection and emotional support; not having someone to go on vacation with; not having someone to share domestic tasks with; being excluded from social gatherings because I don’t have a partner; not having someone to talk to at home on a day to day basis; having to cope with the financial burden of being single (apartment, bills etc.); not having a regular source of quality sex available.
Surely these things apply to men just as much as women?
If this is the case, why aren’t men jumping up and down with excitement when they meet someone they connect with, like we are?
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Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do?
These guys play on their terms, not yours and are a total waste of time to any woman trying to forge something real and lasting.
and while she misses a travel companion, movie companion and regular sex, life is pretty much okay as it is. Men are more likely to define themselves by their careers – What do I do? Then again, many of my smart, strong, successful clients also bury themselves in their work for a decade, and emerge from their cocoon of success and travel, only to learn that they’re really, really lonely. I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: men need more help; women ask for more help.
I just think there are more men than women who are okay with low-investment, low-return, that’s all. I can only imagine there are millions of women who haven’t contacted me who continue to immerse themselves in that worldview that success and accomplishment matters more than love. And nowhere is that clearer than in the realm of relationships.
A few thoughts off the top of my head:• Over twice as many women take anti-depressants, compared to men.
This takes care of most of a man’s basic needs – for companionship, for laughs, for fun.
As I look at that list, it occurs to me that most of my clients who are perfectly content being single are satisfied with their female friendships. This is unfortunate and short-sighted because nobody dies thinking that he wishes he had a 72” Sony instead of a 64” Vizio. Women, who are, in general, more emotional and intuitive, are more likely to define their lives by their relationships.
Women talk about their feelings with much greater frequency and intensity, further feeding the perception/reality that they care more about relationships.4. As a result, Western women are very disappointed in their men, whereas men aren’t nearly as disappointed in women. We just hate the fact that you need us to change so much.